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3.25.2009

3rd day of the 3rd week, and I am rotting fast in the office at work. My supervisor is on leave for two days and though he's given me work to do, I have no idea how to the follow-up on the task itself. To be honest, I have been very slack at work since the start on Monday, but at least I took the initiative to brush up on my Excel.

Played football at Toa Payoh with my pals yesterday, and ended up with a bruise on the right knee. Okay I don't know what I am typing right now, I am feeling very exhausted from all that running til now, and I wish that sleeping hours would be more longer for me. Looking at the life Billy and Wei Qian are currently having, makes me super envy of them. Why? They get to sleep late, wake up late and get to enjoy their holidays!

What is your definition of love? Why do you love? Which do you prefer, to love or being loved? What can love do to you and your life? How do you love? These are questions that we might probably ask in our life since young. To me, love is something very powerful and at the same time, a mystery.

Do bear this in mind, love does not always mean your BGR or sex. I have friends who always relate love to sex, without actually understanding the real meaning of love. I shan't mention who but unless you understand the meaning of love, forget about the sex part. Love can be expressed towards everyone, like your family, friends and even God. There are many different forms of expressions of love, and that depends on who you are. The way you talk, your actions and your thinking can affect the way you express love. Not only that, your upbringing, the environment that you live in, influence from people around you can also affect the way you love people.

So what is love to you? There are actually two options: A) Is it a feeling? or B) Is it a form of action? Like most of you readers, A should be the "general" answer that I pick. It's true, without feelings there is no love. But may I ask use one example to illustrate this:

"It is a bright Sunday morning, you wake up feeling very good and happy, you started texting your loved one and stuffs. Suddenly you hear shouting and nagging from your mom at you asking you to do household chores! You get pissed off, and without knowing you piss your girlfriend off too."

What I am trying to say is, never use your feelings to love someone. Cause feelings change, one minute you are happy, the other minute you are feeling blue or even frustrated. If you are one who is in a relationship before, I hope you understand what this means.

So the actual answer is B. Love is form of action. But why arh?...

Okay okay I better get back to work already. I will explain why soon.

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