Try Loving, Don't Try To Be Nice.

"it doesn't pay to be kind." how often do we hear this phrase from the world? after all, we all want to be nice, it's just that the people that we love aren't appreciative of what we are trying to do for them. sometimes to the extent that you either become verbally abusive or the middle finger just pops up right smack at their face.

yes we all know that "God is love", but have we ever seen this, "God is nice" ? we are also aware that God is faithful, trustworthy, compassionate, patient and the list goes on. but we never see that God is 'nice'.

being nice to people is merely depending upon our own human strength, and not God's. however, we begin to see and feel things differently if we draw strength from God, instead of being mr. nice guy, we actually learn to love. with God's strength, we can stop pretending to be nice, but rather to sincerely and spiritually love that person even though he is still not appreciative of what you are doing for him/her. God commands us to love Him and our neighbors as ourselves, those who offends/curses us, and our own enemies.

we can be nice to people and still end up failing. but God's love is never failing, it never disappoints us.

today, my friend, are you willing to draw God's strength and try to love the unloved, those whom you don't love, and yourself?

and when you begin to love that person, you will also begin to experience God's love for you!

:D

* if you are reading this, you know who you are. fighting!

The Power To Forgive, That Courage To Forget

" God has the power to forgive, and forgets. the accounts and debts that you owed him before, are now cancelled. since He is able to do that, are you able to forgive those who curse, persecute, offend and hit you? are you able to pluck up that slight courage to forget about the past between you and your brother or sister? "

today, are you willing to forgive and forget?

yes... i am willing, but i can't depend on my own strength alone, i need to draw God's strength. i want to surrender everything onto Him, all the worries, anxieties, financial, relationship, family and personal problems. let my mind be re-newed once again with Your love.

a relationship with God should be like a pyramid, where earthquakes can't shake us, cyclones can't break us, and hurricanes can't take away His love from me. it is built on a solid yet strong rock foundation.

" so what's next? "

spiritual goals... covenant with my shepherd... transformed... changing lives through changed lives...

Poker Face

poke poke poke poke poke poke poke poker face~ mum mum um mum um~

if you don't know about it, kok chye torn his ligament and will be out of action from football for at least 4 months! looks like he's gonna get more palace treatment in the army, exempted from so many stuffs, i wonder what how our soldiers are going to fight a war next time. and soon enough, my time will come. to be honest, i am pretty anxious about army life and how i would be going through it with even stronger temptations. the result of the output would definitely differ than the input of the product. i hope i get nerdy and stupid bunkmates, hopefully.

okay another thing, i really suck at playing poker. i don't even know what's going on, i only three words to shout, "call", "raise" and "check". most of the time i either call or check, oh there's another word "fold". call, raise, check and fold. these four words sound like a procedure or something. but i sure had fun with the brothers, and it felt the good old days. just chilling... and chatting about whatever random stuffs we have.

attendance for official soccer gatherings is always full, but for saturday, its really disappointing. till now, the youth hub seems kinda empty. one reason i believe is the timing, most students often hang out in the afternoon either in town or places to chill. but school on a saturday afternoon playing sports ? no thanks, i got other better things to do. if that's the mindset we're facing from the younger generation, we need a change. or maybe that's just a bunch of excuses... mmm...

sermon shared by irene today left me dumbstruck, especially when she shared about porn. wow, its really what i am going through now. what she said really make sense, but of course, i can't listen and just feel guilty and pretend that 'hey tomorrow's gonna be better day!'. i need a miracle man, just one simple miracle will do. i wanna be a transformer!

4 things that can lead my spiritual mind to destruction:

1. proud

2. critical

3. lazy

4. doubtful

i am better than lionel messi, i scored all the above goals. and it isn't worth celebrating about. ):

Tongue Twister

if i could, i would donate my tongue. so that those who can't speak will be blessed with the gift of communication. it was a great start for work, especially when i meet colleagues who are simply friendly and helpful, only those whom i know. as for the rest, i'm not sure about the politics in the office, but some can give you the cold shoulder at times. i should smile more often at them, hey then i would look like retarded-ly handsome.

what made my life miserable was my tongue. i kept blabbering a lot of crude nonsense and vulgarities wherever i am, being a seriously bad influence, especially to my brother Teck Yi. it feels like i am to those good old days man, but am getting better at it. of course, i still got the army life coming up. uh-oh.

ever since the start of work, Teck Yi has been the only friend i had, going back home together after work was one thing i was looking forward to. we would talk about a lot of stuffs, kinda like the HTH (heart to heart) conversations. no worries, no gay no gay. it soon became a motivation to my working life every day. thank god for this week, because nothing happened during work. heh.

the tongue is the only weapon that is lethal. i just hope i can be dumb for life and not speak, and give the others an opportunity to speak. seriously, i dont mind though.

anyway, what's exactly going through the minds of local women? go to facebook, twitter, blogs or msn personal messages you see many kinds of emo-tic phrases or quotes. i've been seeing the same nonsense repetitively and it's starting to piss me off. the other type of local girls are those who are super fickle-minded, i.e. eeenie mynie eeenie mo lover.

that term is defined as someone who changes her/his lover like clothes in the wardrobe. and my dear brother Teck Yi happens to be the victim of someone. i am not sure what's on her mind right now, but sending the wrong signals isn't nice. a minute she say pretty things to him, the next minute she doesn't know who you are.

my friend, the jungle is full of flowers and fruits! don't pick the pretty ones, they can kill. instead pick the smelliest flower of all, the rafflesia (is that how you spell it?) !

or pick the fruit that is hard on the outside but soft on the inside, mmm something like the durian la! but at the end of the day, it's an individual's choice. we can't judge, live with it and give them our blessings.

if you happen to victims of 'eeenie meanie mynie mo lover', accept my condolences. but you can always come meet and play lan with me ! yeah, recently been doing many things alone. eat, sleep, watch movie, play lan, window shopping. doing all these alone is fun! well of course, if you wanna ask me out. i gotta think first, cause i only hang out with the ladies. heh kidding la. brothers also la.

also kidding.

Quietness

Shhhhh...

My house is never a house of peace and quiet. I hear a lot of noises and arguments especially from my mom.

Noises about hygiene, this dirty that dirty. Sometimes, I just wanna get out of my house and live on my own. Fuck, I can't even feed myself, really I can just shoot myself and die.

I want to come back home from work and stay still in the quietness, and be still.

But, shit always happen. And it happens everyday. ):

What About Now.

we often harbor thoughts about our past, and our future. but what about now ? we make amendments from our past, and plans for the future, but why can't we work out something now ? it's a problem i face in my daily life too.

before the holidays even started, i had a list of plans of what i was gonna do. so blah blah blah came out those words from my mouth about the exciting adventure i was going to have and boom!

...

i have started working and all my plans failed.

what about now ? what should i do with my life now ?

honestly, i have been feeling so emo with myself that my complexion is starting to worsen. lobster. i need to go for a facial soon during the weekends. anyone interested to tag along ? preferably a female. :P

alright tomorrow is thursday, can't wait to start and end work quickly! so that i would be able to thank God for fridays !

what am i going to do now ?

facebook and sleep.

start of working life... Again

remember my internship with Tiger Airways last year? i have found a new job, all thanks to my bro Lim Teck Yi, who's been patient with me during that job-hunting period. without him, i would still be jobless today. while i was sleeping throughout the job-hunting period, Teck Yi has been sending my resumes to various companies and job agencies without my approval. eventually Building & Construction Authority accepted my resume and immediately i started work on Monday.

fortunately, he's got a job with MOE, and having similar jobscope as i. also known as "Sai-Gang warrior", we have to handle with data entry and handling calls with scholars in Singapore, sponsorships and companies.

unfortunately, these scholars who have seriously excellent academic results doesn't produce excellent communication skills. they are rude and can be pretty difficult to accomodate. damn it, i am starting to hate them. arrogant and stuck-up.

so i played soccer yesterday at NUS, it was superb. i think i played pretty well plus i had lots of game time in the courts. more wins than losses increased my confidence and game morale. expect even more next Tuesday!

currently none of my supervisors are in the office, which explains why i am able to blog!

HAHA :D

That Slight Moment of Happyness

i was staring at the ceiling of my room and managed to sleep when my brother woke up around 6 in the morning. the alarm ranged and it was 9 plus. i got up, saw the message and got a shocked!

1. Aircraft Propulsion System = B (Bad)
2. Aircraft Structures & Aircraft Systems 2 = B (Bad)
3. Design and Development of Aircraft Components Processes = B+ -.-
4. Human Factors = ADistinction :D
5. Overseas Immersion Programme = A :D
6. Systems Dynamic Control = ADistinction :D
7. WISP = A

i love it when the system always save the best for the last. so this is the final results of the last semester where many of my classmates thought i couldn't make it. i think this should shut them up by now. thank you Lord for this miracle.

don't aim for the impossible, pray for the impossible. :D

FINAL GRADUATING GPA: 3.8576

oh and thank God it's friday! what a great start to the day!

okay i am smiling for now, ain't that a great blessing ?

April Semester 2009

Current GPA: 4.0000

Cumulative GPA: 3.9129

Subject & Catalog Nbr	Module	Attempt	Grade	Supplementary Grade(if applicable)
AEROSPAC 1QSMM	QUALITY SYSTEM & MANUFACTURING MGT	1	A+	-
AEROSPAC 26INT6	6-MONTH INTERNSHIP	1	A+	-

October Semester 2008

Current GPA: 3.9310

Cumulative GPA: 3.8894

Subject & Catalog Nbr	Module	Attempt	Grade	Supplementary Grade(if applicable)
AEROSPAC 1ASAS1	AIRCRAFT STRUCTURE & SYSTEMS 1	1	A	-
AEROSPAC 1CADM	COMPUTER AIDED DESIGN & MANUFACTURING	1	A	-
AEROSPAC 5ED	ENGINEERING DESIGN	1	A	-
IS LS 1SAFETY	SAFETY AT WORK	1	A	-
IS LS 1UR	UNDERSTDG RELATNSHIPS: LOVE & SEXUALITY	1	B	-
MECHANIC 2SOM	STRENGTH OF MATERIALS	1	A+	-
MECHANIC 10AM	APPLIED MECHANICS	1	A+	-

April Semester 2008

Current GPA: 3.9375

Cumulative GPA: 3.8733

Subject & Catalog Nbr	Module	Attempt	Grade	Supplementary Grade(if applicable)
AEROSPAC 1AL	AIRWORTHINESS LEGISLATION	1	B+	-
AEROSPAC 1AMP2	AEROSPACE MATERIALS & PROCESSES 2	1	AD	-
AEROSPAC 1AS	AVIONICS SYSTEMS	1	AD	-
AEROSPAC 1MF	MECHANICS OF FLIGHT	1	AD	-
AEROSPAC 1TF2	THERMOFLUID 2	1	AD	-
IS IE 1IECOM	INNOVATION & ENTERPRISE IN ACTION	1	PX	-
MATH 2EM3B	ENGINEERING MATHEMATICS 3B	1	A+	-

October Semester 2007

Current GPA: 3.9200

Cumulative GPA: 3.8431

Subject & Catalog Nbr	Module	Attempt	Grade	Supplementary Grade(if applicable)
AEROSPAC 1AMMP	AERO MANUFACTURING & MAINT PRACTICES	1	A	-
AEROSPAC 1ETE	ELECTRICAL TECHNOLOGY & ELECTRONICS	1	AD	-
AEROSPAC 1FAT	FUNDAMENTALS OF AEROSPACE TECHNOLOGY	1	A	-
IS LS CATS	CREATIVITY AND APPLIED THINKING SKILLS	1	B	-
IS LS SW	SPORTS AND WELLNESS	1	PX	-
MATH 10EG2	ENGINEERING MATHEMATICS 2	1	A+	-
MECHANIC 1ENGMEC	ENGINEERING MECHANICS	1	A+	-

April Semester 2007

Current GPA: 3.7692

Cumulative GPA: 3.7692

Subject & Catalog Nbr	Module	Attempt	Grade	Supplementary Grade(if applicable)
AEROSPAC 1AMP1	AEROSPACE MATERIALS & PROCESSES 1	1	AD	-
AEROSPAC 1TF1	THERMOFLUID 1	1	AD	-
AEROSPAC 5EDCAD	ENGINEERING DRAWING & CAD	1	A	-
COMP 1COMPRO	COMPUTER PROGRAMMING	1	A+	-
IS COM 1COMT	COMMUNICATION TOOLKIT	1	C	-
IS LS IAC	INDIVIDUAL AND THE COMMUNITY	1	B	-
MATH 10EG1	ENGINEERING MATHEMATICS 1	1	AD

* taken from Ngee Ann Polytechnic. these are my past semesters results. enjoy! :)

This Is It

get ready, because the results would be out in just another few hours. am i excited or feeling worried about it? i am having the best of both worlds actually, after a sudden relapse of what went wrong in this last semester. i hope i don't mourn tomorrow morning, still got lots of errands to run the whole day.

anyway, due to the high level of anticipation for the results, i couldn't sleep so i read the bible. and i completed the book of matthew! whooo hoooo! but there were some areas, i didn't understand though.

after being cooped at home for four days, i am finally making my debut outside! i need fresh air, normal meals, movies and seriously a lot of walking! the reason why i emphasized on meals is because i've been munching on bread, biscuits and maggie noodles which suck to the max!

shit, it's 2.30am already. finally getting tired ! bye.

oh and good luck to those getting the results late.r

Enchanted

Korean music videos are very similar to each other, the only difference are the music artistes. But I love their variety shows, especially the recent couple in "We Got Married". Yes it's Seohyun from SNSD and YongHwa from CNBlue! I can't stop smiling at the laptop whenever Seohyun's eyes sparkle, yes her eyes do sparkle, and its hard to say "No" to her.

Eyes like hers definitely melt my heart. :p

Okay, SNSD latest music video just got online, so quickly go watch it! The name's called "Run Devil Run", quite a catchy phrase huh, I like that and them of course.

Taeyeon and Seohyun are both on my favorite list for this week! I wished I could choose between the both of them, or they choose me. *Looks at the Singaporean girls. No way, cannot make it la. Suka suka later anyhow make police report and sue me. I still cannot understand why most girls in our country are selling themselves at such a high price. Buying a mirror is cheaper than them, or chocolates, or even roses!

Okay better not go on further, if not I would end up looking for a maid. *Eh also not bad what, she would make the perfect wife, an all rounder! (:

Staying at home isn't really the best solution after all. I am heading out tomorrow! I gotta keep my sanity.

Negative

Since the start of March, I can't seem to post anything happy about my life. I know it's getting boring reading about myself getting so emo over my brothers again and again. I will try my best to type a happy one, but apparently football today was a total joke. No wait wait, I was the joke. What's going on with me?

My dad's birthday ended in style after a quarrel with my mom. There was no celebration due to the cold war, but I was proud of myself. I bought a tub of Haagen Daz ice cream (Dark Chocolate and Cookies) as a gift for him. Fuck you if you think that's cheap, but after today, I am broke again for the week. Respect my filial piety, and not the money.

Next week, I will start work! Wonder what its like to travel by train in the early mornings to work though, it means I have to stand! Oh and that tapping sound of my EZ card, it is irritating and costly too. So much complaints, yet the pay is so little. Live with it arh...

I can't seem to find happy things to talk about. FML.

In A Total Mess

It's just the start of Monday and I am fucked up already. Don't ask me what's happening, but rather ask:

"Why do you have such fucked up brothers?"

Fuck them. I am paying $2000 SGD to eliminate them. Who's interested?

Scored A Hat Trick

James 1: 15

"Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin when it fully grown, gives birth to death."

I am thankful to God that I dragged myself to church, because the worship and sermon by Rev. Vincent was simply awesome. Yes, I re-read the book of Matthew last night, up to the part where Jesus explained about the seven deadly sins. After that, I headed to bed.

Today, God spoke to me through the sermon of the 3 deadly sins which were taken from the Old Testament, in the book of 2 Samuel 11: 1-15. Even the worship was beautiful, the selection of songs suited how I felt yesterday night. How I felt against those who didn't bothered to reply my text, how I felt against my brothers, how I felt against God.

Even though the soccer match was cancelled in the afternoon, I still scored a hat-trick, not goals but 3 deadly sins. Lust, complacency and murder.

I thought having lustful eyes was a gift in the past, but no, it's a sin. If you can look at women without any lustful desires, you are not a sinner. The truth is, men aren't good liars. In the bible, Jesus told the people to (gouge their eye/chop their hand) if it causes them sin, as it would be better rather than having the whole body to be tossed into the unquenchable fire.

Rev. Vincent sudden mention about porn really struck me in the heart. The similarity in porn and smoking/drugs is that they are bad for health. Porn causes memory losses and the latter causes lung/breathing problems. The only difference between them is you can download porn for free while you gotta pay for cigarettes and marijuana.

I'm a stingy person, so I don't belong to the smoker type. It's kinda obvious to know where I am standing at.

Yes, I admit I have been watching porn ever since I was secondary 2. All kinds of genres, except for gay. Honestly, you cannot talk about these kinda stuffs unless you have experienced it before. I know its disgusting, but yeah, better to be honest now in the eyes of God. Initially, it was not that serious, but slowly the buildup began and eventually I fell into it. I was sucked into this temptation to fulfill my lustful desires.

I have been stressing over this problem ever since the prayer meeting, when Pastor Daniel told us to find one corner and pray to God to listen to Him. I felt that this was what God wanted to me to do, just that I didn't have the courage till today. To overcome this sin, I have to face it and be honest about my problem.

Okay I am feeling very terrible and uneasy right now. I cannot expect my sin to grow any further, where it will eventually leads to death. I need your quiet prayers to help me through this problem and eventually I might even share a powerful testimony on overcoming this addiction of pornography.

I know there are many others out there who are also in the same boat with me. I don't have a genuine solution now, except to pray and fast about it. It's definitely difficult, but you and I just gotta hang on to Him. Allow God to re-light that fire within our hearts today!

As for murder and complacency, I shan't talk about that. I am too tired already. Good night reader.s

God Wants Me To Know

The beauty of Facebook-ing is when God speaks to you through it.

The above phrase was typed at a time of 1.30am. Now the time is 2.08am.

During the interval, my mom scolded my two brothers again. My two brothers asked her to shut up and not to meddle in their lives. I am trying to keep my cool while typing this. Yes, frustration and anger is giving me the thought to take a knife from the kitchen and stab them continuously in both of their hearts. Then my mom would dial 999 and take me in. I might just seek forgiveness from God during my time in jail, then face the death penalty.

Why the fuck am I here living with my two brothers? Marcus, you should be glad that you are alone without any siblings. Cherish the moment with your grandparents and mom. Give another few more years, my mom would die earlier than most moms would. Fuck my life with these two brothers. Yes I know God placed them in my life, so I could change them. Right now, I totally give up in them. Well not exactly on the third one, but the second one I am prepared to kill him anytime.

I suddenly understood the feeling that NKT had when he first told me he hated his stepfather, and how he trained hard so that one day he could murder him. I get the thoughts of killing my own brothers, and its scary. Is that myself talking ? Why ? Why ? I am a child of God, and shouldn't I be a role model to the world ? To be the light and salt in my family ?

I feel fuck-ed up. Fuck my two brothers. Fuck those who din't bother to reply my sms-es. Fuck you. Fuck you when you ask me silly questions when you already knew the answer. Fuck you all, seriously.

I wanna break down, I wanna tell someone how fuck-ed up I am now. God, speak to me now. I am sorry that I harbored these evil thoughts, I am sorry when I don't practice what I preach, I am sorry that I never read the bible, I am sorry that I watch porn and tell my friends about it. I am sorry about a lot of things in my life. I know you love me, but I really need your assurance now. That you love me... I am a fucking sinner, with so many fucking problems, especially my two fucking brothers. But still, I want to thank you for all these. Because I wouldn't hang on without you, I wouldn't be down here to venting out all these to you God.

God, I am so fucked up that I worry everyday about money. Yes, I am in debts. Yet I keep spending on eating eating and eating. My mouth just cannot stop. Fuck myself, sometimes I just want to fast, but I can't. Fuck.

Right now, God help my brothers who are also spiritually lost. I bet they are feeling even worser than me. Help them to walk back with you, help them and me to cry out to you. Drinking wouldn't solve the problem, ice cream wouldn't solve the problem. God, come and help all of us to pull through and us up from that dark pit.

Help us help us help us. I will continue hang on onto you. Help me Lord not to harbor thoughts of killing my brothers, I don't even have the guts to kill a cockroach. Help my brothers, help my fucked up brothers, help my mom.

Help me...

Hiding Inside The Freezer

If I had a chance to play a character in a movie, it would be Anakin Skywalker in Star Wars. He was called to be the chosen one among the few Jedi warriors, he fell in love with the woman of his life but soon fell into the dark side, in which he was known as Darth Vader.

Okay that was super random, after being cooped up the entire day at home. Yes, not only I missed the open house at NTU, I missed the food fest event too ! But one thing for sure, I did not miss my friends. Definitely.

Different people with different priorities. I cannot expect them to turn out like how I wanted them to be. The cruel truth about people today is the society we all live in. In the past, it was just about the porn, football, cycling and chicks.

Now, with the introduction of branded stuffs, driving licenses, clubs, pubs has made life even more interesting. Everyone is trying to impress in order to keep up with the society, and that is really a disappointment.

You become an outcast if you ain't owning any of the above mentioned.

You start to choose friends who are in the same category as you, you choose friends because they are of the same status. Sooner or later, when shit happens, these so-called friends aren't gonna be there for you. You just hear the reply: "Oh I am sorry."

And yes, I don't own a fucking driving license. And I will definitely hold on to my transport concession.

Friends are definitely a waste of your time. Enough of going back to the secondary school days already, grow up noobtheNick. These people ain't worth of your time. Help those who really need you.

Forget and forget about them.

Karma

Someone told me this:

"Do not do to others what you don't want them to do unto you."

Yes, karma has hit me back. Wait, I shouldn't waste my smses anymore. (:

I should be positive, just smile and say "Oh I didn't know, sorry."

If anyone were to tell me this:

"Eh why nobody wanna meet up during the holidays?"

I would break his face, and reply:

"Oh you mean you still remember me? I am so sorry, I must have hit the wrong person."

(:

Someone mentioned this in Facebook, that friends come and go. Friends aren't forever, they will be there when they need you, not vice versa.

Good friends will listen to your problems from the phone conversation and watch porn at the same time.

True friends will take you out to relieve all your problems and watch porn together. LOL just kidding.

If only I could exchange my friends for toilet rolls...

Alone In Wonderland

Genesis 2: 18

" ¹⁸ The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."

Ironically, one helper isn't enough/suitable nowadays for man. This is the world we're living in, sooner or later sodomy is coming to invade our society.

I often picture myself in the army, in the shower room with the recruits. The next moment, I accidentally dropped the soap bar, and as I bend down to pick it up... (It's up to your imagination, HAHA)

Would you...

1. Rather be alone in wonderland ?

2. Getting attached and heart broken at the same time ?

3. Racking your brains to get your dream girl but only to find out that you're being rejected or taken for granted ?

3 different scenarios, with only one outcome - FML.

Point 1 is interesting, because only the minorities choose this option. It's either they are plain ugly, plain disgusting or just plain gay. Why would people choose to be alone in wonderland ? Here are some answers which I've heard before :

"Oh, being single is great! No troubles at all, no need to accompany your girlfriend. I can do whatever I want."

"I've heard and seen many cases of breakups and divorces, I don't wish to be like them or go through that kind of hurt and disappointment."

"Cannot... I need to concentrate on my studies..."

"Oh sorry, I am gay."

Pathetic bunch of lousy answers. Yet another group of people who choose option 1 is because they don't know how to love. It's alright, if they met people like me, I would teach them and guide them so that they would choose option 3. From there on, they are on their own. Monks choose option 1 because they have no choice, no offence.

Point 2 is a pretty common thing you see in our society nowadays. Getting attached then BOOMZ! I am a victim/mastermind myself too, and breaking up 7 times is never easy.

But thankfully, all my ex-girlfriends are on talking terms with me. Phew! I know some of you guys out there have yet to open your golden mouth towards your ex-girlfriend/s. It's alright! You just have to take your time, make time and find an opportunity to start with all over again.

To forget the person you loved, requires the exact amount of time that you and her were once together. For example, if it took 3 years to be with your girlfriend, it takes 3 years to forget her.

Those who happened to be in option 2 are people who never gives up. You fall in love, then out of love, recuperate and you start looking for new love. Sounds adventurous! But bear in mind, the number of years in your youth-hood is limited.

The good thing you can look upon is that when you fall out from love, you still have good friends around who will be there for you to share your burden. Good friends whom you once forgotten the moment you were attached, and now they are back to cover your sad "ka-Cheng" ! (:

Don't worry, the good friends aren't the petty sort.

Only true friends are. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Point 3 comes after point 2, and you are on the same boat with me! In the single category! Point 3 can also refers to patching with your ex-girlfriend, only if you really love her or if she's super rich.

Okay for the "being rejected part", I cannot help you if she really doesn't like you. It's either your problem, or she's lesbian. For the "taking you for granted part", I also cannot help you. Sorry, the only solution I have is let God provide you with that helper, which means praying with faith for it.

I think point 3 is common sense. You just gotta come up with a lot of tactics. You can find resources from the libraries, like "how to chase a girl for dummies", or "how to be a good boyfriend" etc.

Never ever resort to unscrupulous methods like feigning innocence or making yourself sound like you are desperate for sex and blah blah, like booking a chalet and doing hanky-panky besides the barbeque part! You know who you are. (:

Racking your brain is stupid! Just be sincere, it must be from your heart. Never impress her before a relationship starts, if not you will be tired out even before the end of 6 months. Congratulations to those who passed the 2 months without sweating at all. Oh shit, that's not love, it's pure lust. HAHAHA!

I have a friend who's nice and gentle, but that girl took him for granted. He's that sort my mom commented that girls would fall for him, instead of me. I wonder why... Could it be his gentleness that's causing the problem ? Or the hair ? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

sorry la bro. I couldn't hold it anymore, I am laughing now while typing this!

Read and reflect about it. I might be wrong, but am always correct and accurate.